What are the good healthy relationship advice for women?Everyone always says, “Relationships are so difficult!” But this is not true. It’s not the relationships that are difficult, rather it is the people involved in the relationships that make them difficult.
Relationships take effort, and they can be healthy and happy if you know what to do. No one has a magic wand at their fingertips that will turn your relationship into a fairytale. But if you follow these tips, you will be pleasantly surprised at how happy you are.
What are the expectations of the women in the relationship?
A girl needs security above all else. To please ourselves completely, we need tenderness, dialogue (which is preferably not stormy!), Honesty and then … commitment.
The expectations and fantasies of starting a relationship are very different for men and women. One is more enterprising, the other more suspicious, one falls in love quickly, the other keeps his feet on the ground …
According to neurological studies, men are less inclined to reveal their feelings than women… If there isn’t a particularly good time to say I love you, we at least want to be sure of their feelings for us !
Best healthy relationship advice for women
Here are 21 healthy relationship tips for women so you can use them every day:
Love yourself.
So many women complain about being unable to find the right partner or attracting fits that don’t treat them well.
Well, it’s probably because you don’t love yourself enough. You can only attract the level of love that you feel for yourself.
So, look at all of your qualities and decide to love yourself exactly the way you are right now.
Take care of yourself.
If you love yourself, you will automatically take care of yourself. This means trying to stay healthy, get enough sleep, go for a massage, escape to a bubble bath, or maybe a girls’ night out.
Apart from your relationship, you have to nourish your soul in another way, otherwise you will have nothing more to give.
Have their own life.
You might be madly in love with each other, but that doesn’t mean the rest of your life should end.
Don’t give up your friends for him. Don’t start golfing and give up your massages if you don’t want to.
Have a certain independence and an identity of your own. Because if you don’t, things are going to get boring and routine in the relationship.
Make sure you connect physically, emotionally, and mentally.
Easier said than done, but these three things are critically important.
If you are just connected physically, but not connecting emotionally or mentally, you won’t be in the long run.
Or maybe you connect mentally, but your privacy is just “meh.” The relationship can be doomed.
You need to have a strong bond in all areas of your relationship. So be sure to keep a keen eye out from the start.
Don’t chase him.
Unfortunately, a lot of women often do. And you might not even know you are doing it. The advertisement
“Snipping” comes in all its forms – it can be an obvious, stalker-like behavior, like calling him 100 times a day. Or, it could be more subtle, like you’re the only initiating contact all the time (meaning you’re more interested than him).
Hunting is a drag for men. Let him chase you.
Say what you think.
When I say “say what you think,” I mean do it slowly and calmly. Don’t suppress your negative (or positive) emotions. Let them out.
Talk to your partner about the problems you are having. Try to see yourself as a team and work through problems together. You deserve respect and have your voice heard.
Don’t avoid problems.
No one really likes conflict. Well, maybe some people do, but in general most people don’t.
So what often happens is they go into avoidance mode. It does not work.
If you avoid problems for years, well, they’ll pile up. And then one day you’ll wake up 25 years later and you’ll never be able to sort them because they’ve been accumulating for too long.
Demand respect.
When I say “ask,” I don’t mean stomp my foot and demand a diva. What I mean is you have to believe that you deserve to be treated with respect at all times – everyone does.
But here’s the kicker – to get respect you have to give respect. So by being respectful, you are only staging good treatment in return.
Be a good listener.
Usually we think that women listen well and men listen poorly. This is not true.
Men and women just listen differently. Women listen to connect with another person, and men listen to solve a problem.
But we all deserve someone to listen to us. So, don’t forget that your partner needs this too.
Show empathy.
Relationships don’t have to be “me versus you.” CA should be “us” as a team. You cannot always consider just your own point of view.
You may or may not be right, but perception is reality. If your partner sees it differently, try to understand. Show him empathy and he’ll likely show it back to you.
Accept the differences.
No one is 100% the same. Even identical twins are not exactly the same.
If you have too many expectations of his behavior that are being violated, maybe you should just accept the differences.
And if there are too many differences that you can’t tolerate, then maybe he’s not the fit for you.
Oh, and remember, he should accept your differences too.
Do not settle.
There are far too many people in the world who fear being alone. It’s probably because they don’t love each other enough to get what they deserve. Instead, they settle for “Mr. pretty good for now. ” And then they find themselves miserable in no time.
Hold for “Mr. Right ”because you will never find“ Mr. Perfect, ”but you shouldn’t settle either.
Don’t try to change it.
Women are known to have tried to change their man. They think things like, “If I can make him lose 30 pounds, he’ll be more attractive.” Or “If I can just get him to stop playing video games, I’ll be happy.” Or “Once we get married it will change for the better.”
Take this important advice – if you don’t like the way he is now without any changes, you shouldn’t be with him. Period. Because you can’t really change it anyway. It will not work.
Teach him to treat you.
The behavior that you allow from another person is the behavior that will persist.
So, for example, if he starts yelling at him early in the relationship when he’s angry, you should correct him by saying gently, “I don’t appreciate you yelling at me. I deserve to be spoken with respect. So until you do, I won’t be part of this conversation. ”
If you don’t, it will only get worse.
Become the person you want to attract.
If you don’t love and respect yourself, you’ll attract someone else who won’t love or respect you. It all starts with self-love.
You can’t fight metaphorically and expect others to treat you like a queen. Believe me, people understand this stuff.
Once you love and respect each other, you will get the kind of relationship you want.
Don’t be afraid to be alone if necessary.
There is nothing wrong with being alone! In fact, it can be quite liberating. The advertisement
You don’t have to compromise with anyone. You can do what you want to do when you want to do it. There is no one to answer. You can know yourself better and work on being a better person.
So if you are not happy in a relationship then try being alone for a while. It could be a lot better.
Show your appreciation.
Everyone wants to be liked by their partner, so why do you think your man is any different ??
Even though he does little things like putting dishes in the dishwasher, thank him for that. Thank him for everything and everything he does for you, and he’s more likely to want to keep doing it in the future to keep you happy.
And don’t forget he should like you too.
NEVER tolerate any type of abuse.
Abuse isn’t just about hitting or beating you. Abuse takes all forms – mental and emotional too.
While physical wounds can heal, mental and emotional wounds are much more difficult to heal.
So don’t tolerate him if he tries to put you down, degrade you, or let you enlightenment. It’s a total deal-breaker.
Don’t be jealous or possessive.
It’s understandable that we didn’t want to share our man. However, there is a difference between wanting to keep it to yourself and being overly jealous and possessive. These qualities generally choke and push men.
Instead, try to be more secure with yourself so that you don’t worry about losing it. And even if you do, you should know that you will be okay with it.
Don’t be bitchy.
It’s easy to be slutty and in a bad mood. But does anyone really want to be around a person like that? I know I don’t.
Constantly throwing up at your man will make him want to avoid you.
Be kind and loving. Stop the bitch and increase the respect instead.
Now, you have everything you need to know to have a great relationship. The list may seem daunting, but it really isn’t. It just takes practice.
However, you will need to keep this in mind at all times. But once you do, you will find yourself living happily ever after.
Don’t be in need.
Being in need and hunting can go hand in hand. If you want to see him 24/7, just text him and basically think the world is resolving around him.
Needy behavior is overwhelming for people, especially men. You think these behaviors are going to help you keep him, but it actually has the opposite effect – it drives him away.
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